THE NEED TO STOP HURTING EACH OTHER

Hurt is the physical or emotional pains exerted or caused by someone towards his love ones. It is the opposite of pleasure expressed with words,beatings, withdrawal of privilege, care and any form of action. Hurting someone can be deliberate or not but whoever is hurt won't understand any excuse. It often comes with depressed or disappointing feelings and in most cases can lead to being hospitalized or death. The experience many had from being hurt is worth hurting at a reflection of it hence Many choose to keep it personal. The most frustrating aspect of hurt is that it comes from love ones,trusted love ones.

WHY DO PEOPLE HURT OTHERS?
Every one has hurt or been hutted. They are many reasons why people tend to hurt others often despite how unacceptable it is to those hutted. Most people who hurt love ones claim its anger. Anger is often the product of misunderstanding arising from poor choice of words, actions, decisions or behavior. Higher percentage of those who hurt others are enhanced by anger. The tendency to hurt is higher in those so aggressive. This has contributed to my description of anger as a measure of man. A good man is a good man even in anger but those who take pleasure in hurting others do always use anger as an excuse. Hatred is also the reason people hurt themselves, it is a dislike feelings towards someone that follows with unwelcome actions. Hate is generally the most reason hurt is existing, it is present or suddenly present before hurting is facilitated. The society is now describe as a den of wickedness because of hate. We hate and hurt each despite how we need each other. Cheating is another reason contributing to hurt. it is the maneuvering of someone intelligence or a smart involvement outside the trusted role or obligation. Cheating can also be seen as unfaithfulness. It takes many forms but what comes to the mind of an average man is romantic cheating. Cheating can be financial, business, even keeping away knowledge from your partner,Employer etc is cheating. No one can cheat forever, day of being caught must surely come, the feelings from realizing the person you trusted was cheating on you is so hurtful. There's also an unknowing reason of hurting someone,it comes or happens unintentionally and most people will try to explain by "i didn't know what i was doing " hence contributing to the saying i don't know what came over me. Loss of conscience can also contribute to hurt. Involvement in Alcohol or illicit drugs can also generate hurtfulness.

THE PRACTICE OF HURT
Hurt is practice in every aspect,places or environ of life. In school students are hurt by follow students and teachers. Teachers are also hurt by students and fellow teachers. This hurt could be a deliberate failing of students by teachers, non fulfillment of obligation to teach, students fighting among themselves, low or non payment of teacher's salary. In homes it could be parents to children or vise versa, Parents to house help or vise versa. Hurt in homes involves parents beating to the extent of injuring their child, parents inability to correct a child for wrong doing,parents Patten of training a child against the norms of the society, Children falling short of parents expectations by joining bad group ,children lack of care for parents, Parents maltreating house help with constant abuse, house help counter acting after much tolerance. Hurt is also practice among religion of the world. Christians seeing Muslims as terrorist and Muslims seeing Christian as infidel resulting to frequent conflicts that result to hurtfulness among the two religions and others. Generally in the society hurt is exerted by private individuals who engages in arm robbers, cultism, rituals leaving family members in abject suffering. Government or politically elected leaders also hurt their followers by falling short of expectations in their welfarism.

THE NEEDS TO STOP HURTING EACH OTHEROTHER
It has become necessary to reflect on this as on on-social personality because of the increasing stories in the society. Many are dead,in trauma or in prison for hurting one another. The following needs or reasons are necessary to stop hurting one another;

1: hurt contribute to a break in wanted unity among man.
2: Some aspect of hurting is a crime and punishable by the law while other is socially, personally or religiously disapproved.
3: Hurting contribute to more hurting.
4: Hurt contribute to conflicts or riots in the society.
5: Hurt deprives man of peaceful and comfortable living.
6: Hurt contributes to vices in the society.
7: Hurt is deadly.
8: Hurt birth hatred among people in the society.
9: Hurt debase and weaken man strength to face daily task.
10: Hurt tarnish a reputation and kills respect and trust.
With the afore reasons and many more its so imminent to abstain or desist from hurting others. Treat yourself like others and treat others like yourself.

However As i dwell on the need to stop hurting each other i dwell on the question,can we stop hurting each other? breath taking!!. Its difficult to stop hurting each other as long as man exist,hurt arises because we are created differently with various lifestyle or approaches towards and among each other. Hurting may not stop as long as we are not universally similar but it can be reduce to it minimal with love,self control and thinking before any action.

In Summary, hurting brings unbearable feelings,everyone either hurt or hurt because of anger,hate, trying to play smart in the name of cheating. The dangers associated with being hurt is trauma ,dead,regrets or conflicts in the society. It is however not easy to put a stop because its like a man holding the barrel of gun,the bullets only affect who its aimed at but its important to know no one won't hold the barrel forever even those that feels can hold should remember there are many shooters. In essence if you are not hurt today,you maybe tomorrow but let each experience be a reason to maintain zero experience among you and significant others. HURT IS HURTING, AVOID WHAT IS HURTING!!.