CHILDREN THE MIRROR OF PARENTS

Some days ago specifically on the 1st of September , my neighbor's child of four years old was involved in an erotic affair with a girl of six years old in the neighborhood. They were beaten and question where did you learn this,it did not take the little child long to boldly say "Its from Mumy and daddy, i use to see what they do in the night." What do you used to see i ask aggressively "Mumy use to lie on top daddy and some time daddy lie on top Mumy,daddy will be telling Mumy to keep quiet because we are around then after a while daddy will say i have come and Mumy will reply ooo."

That is the level of how unknowingly parents have influence their children to involve in certain inappropriate things. At birth it is believed by psychologist that the brain of a child is a "tabula rasa" that's empty hence its speed to grab knowledge is so smart. Children learn faster than we now expect, the notion of their just children is a classification by age and an understatement to learning.

Parents are the first teacher of a child and how good or bad a child will be depends on her upbringing. Children are the reflection of their parents and parents are the light to the narrow path of a child growth. If the parents fails, a child will suffer.

HOW DO PARENTS AFFECT A CHILD DEVELOPMENT?
Child development is the series of changes associated with children. Such changes are inert and control by the environment. Parents are part and the first agents of this environment that affect and control a child's growth.
As a child grows much essence is placed on his cognitive, psychomotor and affective domain because it is seen as imaginary bridge between him, others and the society. The Nigeria Society sees children's as a reflection of their homes hence the saying show me your behavior and i will tell your home. Parents has an unending role to shape their child but if they can't shape themselves their children won't be an exception. The activities of parents are monitored closely by the children,most parents are fun of quarreling, fighting, using abusive words ,undressing in the presence of their children ,teaching their children how to lie,beating their children at any slightest provocation, have less time for their welfare,spending much time on social media, having s3x thinking they're asleep especially parents in single rooms. All this can contribute to a child misbehaving later in life,accept it or not children practice all what parents do in their absence or presence. Parents are TV to children. Children watch carefully and they are what they watch. If there is good telecast ,children will be good,if otherwise children will be bad. Most of us are enjoying that good telecast today because it was played without our parents allowing the love for us to blind them. I did see all the treatment from my parents as hate but now no day passes by without saying thank you dad & mum. Thank you once again. I have realized the difference between a child that's a trouble to the society and that is a blessing to the society is pattern of parenting.

DANGERS OF POOR PARENTING
Poor Parentings can be seen as the deficiency or the inability of parents to guide and direct their children according the norms of the society. Poor parenting  contribute to unrest in the society as most children may be involved in cultism,  arm robbery, kidnapping ,terrorism, prostitution and other forms of social vices. It can also contribute to most children performing so bad in school and later drop out of school. Poor parenting can bring teenage pregnancy too that is on the increase in the society. It also increases divorce and inability of getting married. Poor parenting generally contribute to deviant in the society and subject deviant children to the wrath of the law.

BENEFIT OF HEALTHY PARENTING
The ability of parents to bring up their children in accordance with the religious, societal and socially approved norms is term healthy parenting. It contribute to full development and realization of the child. Healthy parenting is healthy child living. Children who are Doctors, Engineers, Teachers , Nurses , Carpenters today are the reflection of parental guide. Healthy parenting brings healthy benefits to the child, parents and the society. A healthy child is admire by all.

However it is worthy to note that most children are deviant to parenting i:e they abandoned the path of their parents and chose a new one as they encounter the society. It is also worthy to note poor parenting produces deviant children ,they are children that teaches their parents the right things to be done. Children have the greater role to play in their life as the masters of their destiny. Parents are only seen as a guide to a child aptitude and interests . As a child your journey to a good parent begins before you become a father or mother. Take an approved right, don't forget you are the reflection of your children and children to be.

MY NAME IS ZEDICUS PIRO AND YOU KNOW SAY WORDS NO BE PROBLEM